How Sex on Your Wedding Night

If the night after you exchanged your vows ended with an orgasm, consider yourself lucky: 52 percent of newlyweds say they didn't have sex on their wedding night, finds a recent survey of 2,128 people by the U.K. coupon website Voucher Codes Pro.

According to the poll, the most common reason involved too much alcohol (surprise, surprise). Another biggie: exhaustion. Sometimes you just need to pass out after you’ve been planning and stressing for months.

Clearly, it’s time to dispel the totally overwhelming notion that your wedding day—and night—have to be 100 percent perfect. So we got real couples to share the un-sugar-coated version of how their first night of matrimony went down. We guarantee they'll make you feel better: 

The Total Rage-Fest
“Someone brought a keg to our reception, and my husband was doing keg stands most of the night. He got really drunk—along with most of the party—and I almost gave him back the ring during a fight. We slept in separate hotel rooms that night, but we’re still married six years later.” —Lori Johnson

How To Sex Positions That Guarantee the Big O

Has it been a while since you experienced that elusive orgasm?  Tried it every way and yet you can’t seem to reach the soaring heights of lovemaking, huh? Well, let’s make it easy, shall we? Try these awesome sex positions that guarantee mind-blowing, bed-rattling, orgasm-filled sex you’ve never experienced before.

The slow climb: Keep a pillow under your butt and lift your hips and legs towards your shoulders.  It stimulates the G-spot and making love becomes so much more erotic.  In this position, you tend to feel more. Ask your partner to slowly mount you and penetrate. Be ready for the best orgasm ever.

The doggie drop: No, it doesn’t involve being on all your fours (not you at least).  Lie on your stomach, lift your butt slightly and let him work his moves. It increases friction and guarantees a shuddering ending.

Tips for Tantric Sex Newbies

Potential TMI alert: Steve Jobs was into tantric sex, according to the new book The Bite in the Apple: A Memoir of My Life With Steve Jobs, which hits shelves later this month. In the book, Chrisann Brennan, one of Jobs’ exes, reveals some pretty juicy tidbits about their relationship, including Jobs’ affinity for tantric sex (and the fact that he relied on the pull-out method—not cool).

Not quite sure what tantric sex is all about? Here’s a primer: Tantra is a meditative approach to sex that emphasizes being in the present moment without distractions—including distracting thoughts about whether your partner’s feeling satisfied right now, how close you are to finishing, or even how much laundry you have to do later. “There’s all of this noise, this kind of static that goes on while people are making love that really degrades the experience of sex,” says David Yarian, Ph.D., a licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist. “This is the genius of tantra, to provide methods for putting the brain in neutral so that the body can fully experience all the sensations of sexuality.”

Interesting Facts about the Vagina II

The vagina is the opening that leads from your external genitals (between your legs) to the uterus (womb) and your other internal reproductive organs. The skin you can see between your legs on the outside of your genitals is called the vulva. The neck or opening of the uterus inside the vagina is called the cervix. Here we tell you interesting facts about the vagina, including vaginal odour, vaginal discharge, G-spot and much more.

Pretty rare, but there can be chances that a vagina can be allergic to the proteins in the semen. One can suffer from itching, burning and swelling after having sex. Interestingly, research reveals that certain vaginas might be allergic to certain penises only and might work fine with others.

Interesting Facts about the Vagina I

The vagina is the opening that leads from your external genitals (between your legs) to the uterus (womb) and your other internal reproductive organs. The skin you can see between your legs on the outside of your genitals is called the vulva. The neck or opening of the uterus inside the vagina is called the cervix. Here we tell you interesting facts about the vagina, including vaginal odour, vaginal discharge, G-spot and much more.

Hairy tales: Physiologists report that hairy bushes generate a cushion like effect when things heat up, it also prevents friction. Hairy vaginas preserve vaginal odors that turn on a lot of men.

Vaginas are like space, if there is nothing in it to hold it up or open it, it will crumble.

Best Oral Sex Positions

Lying on your back is the most surefire way to get off from oral, say most experts. But if you've got time to explore, test out one of these saucier oral sex positions.

Fully Clothed
POSE: Just hike up your skirt or dress (sorry, this won't work with pants) and sit on the edge of something while he kneels between your legs. No need even to pull down your undies—just push them aside so he can get to work. The immediacy and spontaneity of it will feel supersexy.

How female masturbation in achieving orgasm

As we have already mentioned, the female orgasm isn't as reliable or as automatic as the male orgasm generally is.

For this reason many women consult psychosexual specialists, family planning doctors and so on in the hope that they can be helped to achieve the elusive 'Big O'.

Nowadays, most experts agree that if a woman can reach orgasm through her own efforts, she can then learn to climax with a partner either during love play or intercourse.

Best methods of female masturbation

The average woman masturbates by stimulating her clitoris. She usually does this in little circular motions, either with her index or middle finger. Generally, women begin by touching themselves just above, or below, the clitoris. But as their excitement mounts, they can tolerate more intense stimulation right on top of it.

Some women find they like the feeling of 'bulk' created by having something in the vagina at the same time. This could be two or three fingers of her other hand, or some kind of object. One word of caution: it's best to use fingers or a sex aid designed for the purpose. Women sometimes get into trouble if they use unwashed fruit, or other items, that may introduce infection into the vagina. And they should definitely always avoid anything that's breakable, like glass – for obvious reasons.

Have perfect orgasm through masturbation

Many women like to practice having orgasms a few times on their own before involving a partner. But once you do choose to try with the person you care for, make sure you incorporate what you've been doing into your love play. Show your partner what you like, and let him or her help you to experience this great joy.

1.  Allocate some time – at least an hour, twice a week – when you know you'll have the house to yourself and can guarantee being undisturbed. (Arranging this can be the hardest part of the exercise!)

2.  Take a leisurely bath, using your favorite bath oil. Relax. Enjoy soaping your whole body. Give your breasts and your genitals plenty of attention.

Hot Ways to Spice up Honeymoon Sex

When you think of a honeymoon, all you can think of is awesome sex; admit it!  You don’t think about the hot and sticky on the beach but the wet and sweaty in the bedroom, don't you? Naturally honeymoon sex comes with high expectations. After all, it is going to be one of the most memorable experiences of your married life.  So to spice things up even more, take a look at ways to make hot honeymoon sex memories you'll cherish forever.

Go on an exploring trip: Explore your man's erogenous zones and watch him melt. Let him lie naked on the bed and kiss his every part, even the seemingly unsexy one like his eye lids or the tips of his fingers. Make a mental note of the parts which arouse him most when kissed and touched, and make sure you work your magic on them the next time.